It’s a question many Cincinnati parents ask: Can my child decide which parent they want to live with? While Ohio courts do consider a child's wishes, the reality is more complex.
Yes, but it’s not the sole factor. In Ohio, the court can consider a child’s preference if they are mature enough to express a reasoned choice. That often means children over the age of 12, but there’s no strict age cutoff.
Even then, the court weighs that preference alongside other factors, including:
Judges may choose to speak privately with the child, in what’s called an in camera interview. This helps ensure the child can speak freely without pressure from either parent. However, the judge is not obligated to follow the child’s wishes, especially if doing so may disrupt the child’s well-being or education.
It can be disappointing, but remember: courts aim to create the best long-term outcome, not just satisfy a child’s current wishes. If the judge believes your home offers greater stability, educational support, or emotional care, that will outweigh the child’s preference.
It’s your job as a parent to support your child through this, emphasizing that the decision is made with their future in mind.
We help parents build strong custody cases that reflect their child's needs and best interests. That includes preparing for interviews, gathering supporting documents, and crafting parenting plans that demonstrate your involvement and stability.
Located in both Hyde Park and downtown Cincinnati, our team at NK Law Offices understands the unique aspects of Hamilton County family courts. Whether you're working through shared parenting or seeking to modify an agreement, we're here to fight for your family.
Your child’s voice matters, but so does their future. Let NK Law Offices help you build a custody plan that balances both.
Ready to take the next step? Contact us today to schedule a strategy session.
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